Friday, April 15, 2011

Monday, April 11, 2011

Internet dating. Fixing the need for a fix.

Well... makes sense, I suppose. As I do have an affinity for escapism and addictive behavior - both in myself and (especially) in others:

" Of course, there is significant risk in online communication. If information is missing, people can also miss signs of risk. Ignoring such information can make people confuse the virtual and actual realities. Indeed, people are easily carried away and underestimate the risks of surfing the Net. Like drugs, which provide easy access to pleasure, online lovers can be dangerously addicted to the method. People want more and more, but satisfaction is limited and becomes more costly to achieve. An unfulfilled craving for drugs and cybering can cause great distress. "

Full article: How Well Should You Know Your Online Lover?

Monday, April 4, 2011

Finding the one. And all those who come after.

One of my many men once articulated what he'd been trying to say for months...
"You're the one for a lot of people... but, no one is the one for you."
Well, honey, duh! I'm flirty, fake and frivolous - what's not to love?
As for me finding the one... ewe. That's just confining. Suffocating. Terrifying! To think, just one? Does any woman want just one pair of shoes? Just one handbag? Just one shade of lipstick? Oh! Let's not even think such thoughts. How miserably pedestrian!

No thanks!

Xo!
dk